So yesterday I saw these girls I dance with walk by me, and I qouted something from anchorman to them for shits and giggles...they just looked at me and kept a-walkin! how freakin RUDE is that! I heard one under her breath say, "what did she say?" and the other was like, "i dunno"...
This is not the only occasion this has happened at. HEHE It's like they think im... WEIRD or something! ;)
My friend Kim and I were walking and talking... and i noticed that about 50% of our conversation was of quotes from random movies that we thought were solid. also, a lot of our conversation was filled with talking about nerdy things(evolution, comic books, magic, boys, etc.) And it dawned on me... people just don't get my(and her) humor... well some at least. And those people who don't really get it seem put off by my... shall we say... personality.
This rude reaction is normally given to me by the typical female(girly is the only word to describe it!). But this brings the question up to me... Why?
Why do gals get so put off by me...?
I have all the parts they have. It's not like I am majorly different or anything. I like shoes (thats a lie... :) only ballet shoes). I like boys (even though my statues on facebook says I am in a relationship with a girl... tehe...)
my mom used to tell me that girls didn't like me because they are jealous of me! BAHAHA! and she always said i was the smarted in the class too... so her opinion doesn't count because she does the whole mom thing.
I mean i guess if we are so different... me not being really that girly... then there should not be a friendship-sincer there is nothing in common. But, I like meeting people and knowing about them and becoming their friend as they become mine... its fun... :)
soo... any sugestions on why girls don't really give me the time of day to be my friend or take advantage of the funny and stupid things i say!!!!!...?
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Well, I think your personality is spot-on! Haha. This made me laugh.
well the way i see it, girly girls dont like other girls... they're always talking about how this girl did this and how this girl did that... so my advise is to stay the same, stay nice haha
I often spout out random quotes when walking with my friends and when people look at us funny or saythings under there breath, i normally ask them if they have a problem or just ignore it. Normally i just ignore it and say to myself that they can go to hell and take their friends with them. then we all have a good laugh later about what happened and move on with our live. So i would just ignore it, whos to say you are weird, maybe it is everyone else who is weird not you.
Whats wrong with weird anyway? :)
remember what i said on the first day of class: you are all writers - there are no duplicates, even if you have a twin, they do not see the world as you do - it is our uniqueness that separates us from everyone else
vonnegut once said that we should be careful who we pretend to be, for we are who we pretend to be - be yourself - do not waste time thinking about the fears of others - it is their fear that fuels their misunderstanding, and consequently, they lose out on meeting new people and making new friends
dude i don't get along with girls either!!!! your not weird, people are all different. in my case i just get along with guys better.
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