As I have been walking around in a new town a new learning center I have become discouraged by what I have seen. People told me life would be "SOOOOO much different in college". They were wrong.
Well, let me give you a little back ground on myself before I start my statement just so you know where abouts I am coming from. I grew up the youngest of four children with a SINGLE mother. My mother never dated the whole time i was growing up because, all she needed was to make sure her children grew up right and were safe. So, seeing a companionship between a man and a woman was not a big part in my life. Now that I am older or AKA an "adult" I have dated some, and I had some winners (that ended up being losers) and some losers (who ended up being bigger losers than I thought). So I guess we can say I have not met a "good" guy/man/whatever.
What I found in all of the guys I dated and the guys I hung out with is that they are...(*~*takes beep breath in*~*) DICK DRIVEN! Yes. i know! I realized that somehow, either biologically or emotionally or SOMETHING, men only see women and a vagina. Yes, a man will probably not see their overweight 8th grade math teacher who had horrid breath as a vagina, but!!! most likely the woman having a interesting conversation with a man about... I don't know... the lead singer of Coldplay, And somewhere in that conversation that man realizes " that would be a good lay".
so I come to my point! WTF! I don't want to be a walking vagina on campus. I want to be Sarah, that totally neato woman who loves life. It's not different from where I came from at all, everyone is the same dick driven with different names.
Sex brings a relationship(if one at all) to a whole new level whether we like it or not... and noone gets it! Or, well, i guess the men (I don't know if I should even call them that) I have dated just don't concur. It's not that sex should be saved for mariage or that its unclean and ungodly, it is that it shouldn't be the priority in making a friend or a companion.
I promise I am not a woman's rights activist or a satanist... I just wanted to share my feelings on how I think men perceive most the women in the world and myself.
So, my advice for the day is:
-Men if you are overly dickdriven... tone it down. Meaningful Sex = good.... Dick driven = bad
-Women... Your not a vag! Get it through your head. Be something! Anything. Vagina's are not the prettiest. :)
To be continued to due to lack or time and concentration. :)
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